8 essential wedding day does and donts for grooms

8 essential wedding day does and donts for grooms

As the big day nears, both brides and grooms tend to get a bit nervous and uptight….

As the big day nears, both brides and grooms tend to get a bit nervous and uptight about a thousand different details. Thats completely normal, because thereís a lot of expectation and emotion that has been building up while you have been doing your wedding planning. However, as a groom, there are a few things you can do and a few you should avoid that can make your wedding day go more smoothly and make it even more special for you and your bride.

As the big day nears, both brides and grooms tend to get a bit nervous and uptight....

1. DO take mental snapshots throughout the day.

Wedding days become so full of activity that most couples find the day is over before they know it. Its easy to get swept up in the excitement, so make sure you remind yourself throughout the day to take a deep breath and preserve that moment in your mind so you can reflect on it down the road.

2. DONT piss off the bride.

This may seem obvious, but if you have a bad habit of showing up late to things or tend to drink too much around your buddies and both of these traits frustrate your fiance to no end, today is the day to make sure neither of these things happen or, for that matter, anything else that may even slightly provoke her. Today your goal is to make her happy to no end, and every ounce of your being should be devoted to this.

3. DO put someone else in charge of wedding day logistics.

Many brides do most of the wedding planning prior to the big day, and it will be impossible to get her to delegate everything on her wedding day. However, it is a very good idea to either hire a day-of wedding planner or recruit the maid-of-honor or another good friend to act as director, general fire marshal (as in the person who puts out fires) and stand-in wedding planner on your wedding day. This way you and your bride can focus on each other and your guests instead of picking up the cake because the bakeries truck broke down.DO put someone else in charge of wedding day logistics

4. DONT plan your bachelor party for the night before.

This is a massively huge donít, primarily because you want to be able to physically stand up and function at your own wedding. Look at it this way if you show up to your own wedding horribly hung over, you will hear about it for the rest of your marriage. Not exactly a great beginning to wedded bliss.

5. DO give your bride a keepsake gift the night before.

Many engaged couples have planned either their rehearsal dinner or a family gathering for the night before the wedding, and this is a great time to pull your fiancé aside and give her a small memento, just a little something to show her that your world revolves around her. A really nice touch is to give her something that she can wear during the ceremony (as in something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue), possibly an heirloom piece of jewelry that is from your family.DO give your bride a keepsake gift the night before

6. DO bring your wedding license for your officiant to sign.

Its surprising how many couples forget their wedding license, which needs to be signed and then sent in by your officiant in order for you to be officially married. Just make sure you bring it with you to the church or wherever your ceremony is being held.

7. DO instruct your best man to prepare a PG-rated-or-better toast.

It is also astonishing how many best men either mumble and stammer through an obviously ad-hoc toast or tell some bawdy story about the time long ago when the groom got drunk with a stripper and, well, you get my drift. Dont assume your best man knows what is in good taste or not; just tell him to keep it clean and sincere. Humor is okay, as long as it doesn’t offend anyone.Wedding Weight Loss

8. DO remember to smile.

I’ve seen countless wedding photos of a smiling bride and a groom with a blank look on his face. Some guys do have a hard time showing emotion, and even if they are moved they still look as if their doing calculus. So if your one of those people who doesn’t naturally smile, remember to flash your pearly whites more often on your big day, because never before and never again in your life will you be photographed this much, and the pictures will be viewed countless times in the coming years.

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